The hilarity continues

[juniper]

After we showed the baby pics to my MIL, we overheard her saying to someone else, "I don't know where that nose comes from. There's no-one in J's famliy or on our side with a nose like that". SO sweet.

On the down side, my mother phoned me up today out of the blue. She hasn't spoken to me since I told her I was pregnant. She called to let me know that she's not happy and she doesn't approve. I knew that, but it did ruin my mood for about an hour, but luckily I had a pedicure scheduled so after that I felt much better. I'm definitely at that stage where I can't comfortably do my own feet, so a bit of pampering came at just the right time. I told her that I was not in the least surprised or disappointed, and she seemed quite miffed that I wasn't fighting for her acceptance. Everyone in my life is happy for me except my mother. And so many of these people are religious, so my mother's Catholicism is not a good enough excuse in my books.

And please don't anyone say my dreadful mother will come round - she won't.

[Soetie]

LOL Your MIL sounds interesting!
Sorry your mom hasn't come round. No, I agree that her religious beliefs are not a good reason to not be happy for you. Maybe once your baby is here is might be better? I hope so for you child's sake.

[ChrisN]

Hey Juniper

Sorry about your mother but it sounds like you are strong and excited and managing to see past that to the exciting adventure ahead of you. Maybe she will soften when your LO arrives but in the meantime I wish you and your DW lots of luck and happiness!

[Gwen]

Mothers...

It's a shame she's chosen not to embrace the joy of expecting a grandchild. And hurtful for you and your partner, even though you're strong and mature about it.

I suppose it's at least an object lesson in how NOT to mother (cold comfort, I know).

Don't forget that other people's terrible behaviour is not your responsibility, even if they try to make it about you. Make space for people who treat you well, don't concern yourself with the rest.

[SOS]

Sorry- I really hoped your mom would come around.
How are you doing? My LO seems to be doing ok. Looking forward to my next appointment but that is only 19 Feb at 34 weeks. Starting to feel really excited and getting things ready for LO.

[Bratty1972]

Morning Juniper,

I cannot help to try and explain the actions of your Mom....however, what I can say is the following

In the bible, it clearly states that when a man and woman (in your case woman) decide to form a union, they must leave their parents behind and form a new life........"

And this is exactly what you have done....you and your beautiful wife are now a family.

You have the support of so many. To quote one of my favourite quotes "Not all those crying Lord Lord will enter the Kingdom of Heaven".....so I suggest, leave your Mom be...live your life to the fullest and be accountable for your actions.

All the best
Melinda

[Sharon]

I'm sorry Juniper! I cannot imagine how painful it must be for you to be having this incredible experience and not be able to share it with your mother. Its a special time for Mom's and daughters and its a huge loss too her too, its a pity she doesn't see what she's missing out on!

[Denelle]

I cannot believe some mothers....oh well, that aside I must say that I adore your 3D scan piccie!! Your LO is beautiful!

LOL @ your MIL.

[juniper]

Thanks guys. You're all so sweet.

[Jules]

Hey Juniper...

Family are funny things!! Just remember to surround yourself with those people that make you happy, life is too short to worry with people who don't!!


xxx