Very Sad

[Jemma]

I'm sorry Karin. I don't know what to say as words seem so empty and hollow.

I think the passing of time helps but you never 'get over it'. I think they are in your heart forever.

I hope you can soon start thinking about your POA. It won't be replacing your precious boys but hopefully you'll be blessed with a little brother/sister for them.

Seeing a pschychologist helped me so much. Give yourself time to grieve fully.....I think it can take so much longer than we expect it to.

Thinking of you!
Jemma xxx

[Daryl]

I'm so sorry you are feeling so sad! I hope you have someone with whom you can share your pain and who will just hug you when you need to be held.

Sending you a big mental hug.

Daryl

[Shana]

Karin I'm so sorry you feel sad. But you'll get days you want to cry and it will happen in the future also. But if you want to cry.. cry. I normally feel better after I've cried. A miscarriage is not something you'll forget you learn to live with it.

[Cheza]

I am thinking about you in this time, and praying that God's peace & love surround you & comfort you!

[Petro]

Karin

I don't know what to say to you to make you feel any better. Maybe because I was never in your position before, maybe knowing through my IVF failures that there is not much that will make it better anyway and knowing that there is not answers to ones questions of why me, why this.

All I want to say to you, is that I am so terrible sorry for you pain and loss. I will keep you in my prayers and will ask God to be with you every step of this journey to heal again and to carry you where you can't walk any further.

Please, if you did not already, consider going for counselling to make sure you do mourne the loss of your two little boys.

I am thinking of you.

[KARIN]

Hello Karin,

I haven't been on the forum for a long time and just wanted to let you know that I thought of you the whole of my December holiday and even up to now. I even went to your recent posts quickly last week just to see how you were doing.

I'm so sorry for what you have had to go through. I wish there were words that can make you feel better. Just know that I'm constantly thinking about you and that you are always in my prayers.

Love,
Karin

[MariaE]

Karin,
Seems my post got lost last week.

I am very sorry you are going through this pain and are so sad. I know the magniture of your pain, but unfortunately its something only time can heal. Grieving is so difficult, cause when you say I am OK, then here comes all this pain back to stab you in the heart.

Karin, please try and see a therapist. I know he/she can not take the pain away, but they will help in getting past certain questions you cannot answer on your own, and help you process your thoughts.

Other than that, try and take it easy om yourself. You have been to hell and back with the loss of your babies. Dont forget, I am here for you should you want to talk to someone.

xx
Maria