Reply With QuoteMy worst is when a fat hairy man comes up and says "if you need some help I can always oblige. I just looked at my wife and she fell pregnant".
Daryl
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My brother in law (currently going through the longest divorce in history coz he doesn't have the balls to finalize the thing) said to my wife the other day "You should have just ask me and my black girlfriend to make you one!" Nothing racial, but not everybody is prepared to raise a child outside of our culture. He followed that stupid remark with "Why don't you just adopt?" My wife told him that we didn't adopt coz it's quite impossible for caucasian parents to adopt caucasian babies. That shut him up.
PLEASE - I don't mean this as a racist remark! To each his own. We are just not willing to raise a African baby.
OMG! You gals mentioning the fat bastard winking & going "Just come to me, I'll help you girls out..." is just SO accurate. First they want to "cure" us, then they wanna knock us up!
And when we found out that we're pregnant with a very high HCG level, and everyone thought it's gonna be twins, one biatch actually said "Oh, then you can give me one! I have one but don't wanna go through the whole stretchmarks & weight gain thing again!" Yes, you stupid skank - I'm an incubator whose sole purpose on this earth is to spend my life savings so that YOU won't have to go through any discomfort. People sometimes just fark me off.
Last edited by tolwagen; 11-05-2008 at 03:47 PM.
Lesbian couple
Mommy T (Bio Mommy) = 31 yrs old
Mommy Nix = 41 yrs old
Our son, Christopher was born on 1 June 2009 after 6x IUI cycles. He is the most beautiful little boy and gives his mommies endless love and joy.
My worst is when a fat hairy man comes up and says "if you need some help I can always oblige. I just looked at my wife and she fell pregnant".
Daryl
The best for me is
" You not praying and trusting in God enough"
and
"you have a child so whats the problem"
Love
Robz
[SIGPIC]
DH-36- 2% Morphology
Me-26- Endo
TTC 5 years,
10x Timed cycles 04-08
7x Medicated Cycles 06-08
IVF 1st(2007)BFN
3x Laparoscopy(04,07,08)Endo 4
1x Laparoptomy(09)
Donated eggs(07)
IVF No.2 BFP APR09
1st scan 13th May- 1 Perfect Heart Beat!!
Our Miracle boy was born on the 21st Dec 09!!! C-Sec
I have a daughter and what hurts me the most is when people tell me that I should be happy that I got one at least.
Why the hell should I be put on a quota!?!?!
Oh, and when my SIL (that actually didn't want kids) fell pg after 1 month off the pill, all my IL's where bragging about how fertile she is knowing full well that we spent 3 months with the FS just prior to that.
Me:33
DH: 32
Daughter, Lara, aged 5. Timed cycle with meds (2 yrs ttc)
TTC #2 since Mar 2006
Dx: PCOS and male infertility (diagnosed Dec 2008)
4 x timed cycles with injectables (BFN)
POA: TTC with no intervention, hoping for a miracle
Hmmm, so many to choose from, how do I pick?
* Start acting like a slut in the bedroom - that will help you fall pregnant...
Uh? Say what? I thought dirty sex was the same as missionary sex and guess what neither can fertilize and egg still stuck in my ovaries!!!
* You're so lucky you can't have kids, we really miss our weekend lie ins....
$#@%$^%$^%&^%&$ You! I wish with all my heart that I could "lose" my weekend lie ins...
* Is your DH doing it right? Let me do you and you'll get knocked up...
%^#$^%&^%&^*&^*&^% You! He knows very well how to "do it" you insensitve arsehole!!! And for the record I would not touch your weenie wiener with a 10 foot pole...
* I heard that if you stand on your head for 30 minutes after sex it helps the sperm get to the egg.... maybe you should try it?
All that would happen in my case is that I will pass out you dimwit... All that blood to my head and all...
*SIGH*
SAM
ME = 32
DH = 39
TTC = 6 years
DX = PCOS, Endometriosis
HIST = 4 x Laps | 2 x Clomid IUI's BFN | 2 x Inj IUI's BFN | 1 x Cxl Inj cycle | 12x mnths - Fertiboost | Loads of Reflex | 5 x mnths China Herbs | IVF #1 May 2008 BFN | FET July 2008 BFN | IVF #2 Feb 2009 BFN | IVF #3 with Intralipids Dec 2009 Chemical pregnancy | GIFT with Intralipids Feb 2010 BFN
POA = IVF/ICSI # 4
My blog: www.theclam.wordpress.com
My most hurtful:
My daughter HJ just recovered from cancer and you know God granted her a miracle and she conceived naturally.... I wonder why you're battling so??? - mmmmm what exactly was she implying, HJ, only had radiation at the top of her spine! Her reproductive system was not affected!!!!!
MY DH's cousin, then went on to say that on the farms there are some ewe's (ooilike ooie) that just can't conceive, and they're usually just put out to pasture or slaughtered (cause they're fatter than others), he then told DH to look for a fertile ewe!! I almost killed the f$%$#r, DH had to hold me back, anyway he's now banned from our house
Stuff them all, may they never ever have to experience what we're going through! Infertility is not something I'd wish on my worst enemy!!!!!
Me 33 yrs
DH 34 yrs: Perfectly fine & fertile
1 Miscarriage
5 Chem Pregs
PCOS
Cushings Disease
Stage 4 Endo & Scarring Excised
Hypothyroiditis & High thyroid Anti-bodies
Numerous Timed Cycles
4 Timed Medicated Cycles
Current: Adopted our beautiful son Adam on 23/09/09!!
These are my worst ones :
Everything happens for a reason - I wish someone would back that up by saying what that reason is, why did my baby have to die.
Its part of god's plan- I would love to get a copy of blueprint , as far as I can see its a terrible plan so far.
God will only give you as much as you can handle - can't you see I'm drowning here , I can't handle it.
Figures why my relationship with God is not so good at the moment. Everything seems to go back to him.
[SIZE="1"]Me: 32[SIZE="1"]DH: 32
TTC: 3 years
DH : Perfect
Me: Severe adnemyosis
Feb 2006 : Myomectomy
Feb 2007: Natural BFP
April 2007 : MC 9 weeks.
June 2007: Myomectomy
March 2008 : IVF BFP,
Aug 2008: miscarried @ 23 weeks - precious baby girl.
September 2008 - advised to use a surrogate-uterus can't carry to term
Nov 2008 :IVF #2 with surrogate
Dec 2008 : Surrogate miscarried at 5 weeks.
March 2009 : Surrogate FET BFN
March 2010 : FET BFN
POA - I don't know anymore
Just read through all the comments - we're a funny bunch, us infertiles! Suppose, if we don't laugh, we will cry (I know that's the truth, in my case)
Wannabe-a-mommy
Me (27) PCOS, One blocked tube
DH (28) Sperm - Good count, low morphology (but MUCH better since we are taking Staminogro)
Married - 6 years
TTC - Since July 2004 (4 years and counting)
0 x BPF
1 x Laporoscopy
1 x Ovarian Drilling
3 x Clomid
1 x IUI - BFP(I know, who would have thought!?)
FS - Dr. Ramdeo (Care Clinic -Westville)
"let me have a baby for you"
Clearly you are not serious, why would you even suggest somthing like that.
TTC 8 Yrs
1st Labscope 06/2000
TTC Naturally
2nd labscope 2002 cyst found and cleared
02/003 Clomid
04/2003 3rd Labscope left tube blocked every
TTC Natuarally 2004,2005,2006
HSG 04/2007
Blood tests
Vitalab more blood tests
High FSH
Hostile Mucus
Labscope 08/2007
Left tube disconnected
Vesticular Endo Removed
IVF planed no funds avail.
Jewel, I hear you sista! Add one to that "Maybe God doesn't want you to be a mother"
SEE-RI-YUS
Someone said that to me and it absolutely haunted me for years. Wonder why my relationship with God hit a bit of rough batch?
I want to find the fucker now and ask him AND NOW?? AND NOW WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY FOR YOURSELF??
But the ultimate worst anyone has ever said to me (and I've got all of the above and more) is this:
After my one twin son died in utero at 21 weeks, leaving the other one alive...
"hey, sorry buddy, but at least you've got another one in there"
Yes, luckily we didn't really like that one and thank fuck there were two of them in there. A spare one in case the one died. Handy that."
Stupid people, every where!
PS forgive the french, I find it hard not to swear when talking about infertility
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